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"Parents located in North London seeks an remarkable and skilled tutor to assist their smallest child on his initial journey to turning into an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might naturally skip the wording "initial stages" as simple an expression.

Yet, it could be the most significant aspect of this unique employment listing, as it attempts to hire a tutor for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of responses have since been submitted since the anonymous family published their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the listing has attracted attention in the press, with many questioning why?

Forward-Thinking Method

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of Tutors International, which is assisting the family in their search, said that notwithstanding first doubt, he considered the plan "forward-looking", and "advanced".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they recognized the atypical aspect of their demand, and how early in age their son is.

But, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that age "cultural influence had already set in".

But what does the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", he responded. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He said the older sibling had absorbed "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural norms. The family told him they did not want this pattern to recur with their new baby.

The plan: To hire a UK tutor, who should speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby from day one.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the learning at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," explained the expert.

It's by means of this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will adopt the English characteristics they want to impart.

Adam explained the tutor must be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to Adam the selected educator should ideally also have familiarity of or enthusiasm in horse riding, winter sports, the arts and instrumental training so as to influence the child in a wide range of passions.

Additionally though, he explained the family hoped the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of classes so the child would be "horseback riding and starting an tool by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's minds, helping their son become a "UK sophisticate" will lead to success and create opportunities.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he comments.

However, in spite of all this tutelage in "UK identity", would the child absorb what is termed cultural bias from the multicultural family he lives with regardless?

"Certainly", answered he. "They understand this may not work, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the tutoring industry who express similar concerns.

Peter Cui, head and founder of Blue Education, who also offer personal educators, wrote that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not designed."

The expert noted that he had moved from Asia to the Britain at the age of 7 years old, and had been educated knowing and living dual heritages. He progressed to learn at Cambridge University.

"The concept that a single person can function as a representation of UK identity, someone who can possibly impart the attributes of a English gentleman onto a infant child, strikes me as optimistic and impractical," he stated.

"In my experience, engaging a quintessentially British tutor from early childhood will does not necessarily achieve the goal they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been lucky enough to experience several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The reality is, personal identity cannot be dictated from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Buying Britishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the CEO believes can be educated – and marketed.

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